Areas of focus
Because the way you love, communicate and connect is shaped by more than one story.
Every couple has its own way of finding each other and losing each other. Sometimes it's about culture, sometimes about how your minds work, and sometimes it's an old pattern neither of you knows how to stop.
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Where relationships get complicated
There's the life you've built together. And then there's everything you've brought into it: family expectations, the feeling of being far from home, different nervous systems, and the ways you learned to protect yourselves long before you met.
We don't have to make you the same to help you feel closer.
What brings couples here
These aren't separate boxes you have to fit into. Often, they're all part of the same story.
“We come from different worlds. How do we build one together?”
Expat life can be exciting and lonely, sometimes at the same time. Different languages, family expectations, parenting values and experiences of belonging can leave you feeling like you're building the same life from two different maps.
We explore what matters to each of you and how to create a shared sense of home, without asking either partner to lose where they come from.
“We finally understand our differences. Why does it still feel so hard?”
A diagnosis may help you make sense of years of misunderstanding. But mental load, sensory needs, emotional regulation and unequal responsibilities don't resolve themselves overnight.
Here, both experiences matter. We look at the attachment and relational impact of neurodivergence, alongside practical ways of living together that respect both partners.
“We love each other. We just keep ending up in the same place.”
Maybe one of you reaches for closeness while the other pulls away. Or the same conversation ends with hurt, silence or keeping score. Over time, it becomes harder to remember what being a team felt like.
We slow down the cycle, make room for what's underneath it, and practise the kind of repair that helps you find each other again.
Trauma-informed. LGBTQ+ affirming. ADHD and autism informed.
My approach
Therapy isn't about deciding who is right. I work actively with both partners to understand what keeps happening, take responsibility for what needs to change, and build something more honest and workable together.
A simple first step
A free 15-minute introductory video call is a chance for us to meet, understand a little more about what's been difficult, and see how I can support you best.
Couples sessions: €250 for 75 minutes.
Sessions are held in English, online across Europe, subject to applicable professional requirements.
A place to begin
You don't have to fit into a category or know exactly what's wrong to reach out. We'll start with your relationship, as it is.
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